Tadi baca entry kat blog Prof Kamil pasal budak nakal.. sekolah yg dia pegi nk wat cramah tu cikgu2 sekolah tu merungut budak2 skolah tu nakal2... hmmm....
teringat plak aku dgn few of my frens yg dulu masa sekolah nakal n mcm pening2 n mcm blur2 gitu.. pastu teringat plak students kita yg lately nih makin nakal... n osso the never ending stories of our (as in us d lects) tense r'ship with this kind of students.. I've had my fair share of handling budak2 nakal mcm nih... the first PIP batch... masyaAllah... I was teaching at that time.. buleh sorang mamat nih cakap kuat2 'MENATANG APA TUH'?!!!
yeahh ni lah Bob - Menatang Apa tu.. tgk tu it was taken in 2005 but i still have his pic.. and he's actually a nice boy...
and I remembered during the hi-tea we (d college) had for them (penutup/graduasi PIP la kunun) I was given a chance to say few words... and I said sumtin bla..bla.. n 'colorful characters' and the director then was kindda mesmerized (wahh...what a word choice) with my term of choosing that ' colorful character' phrase... coz the truth is.. colorful characters tu simply means NAKAL la.. tu la yg aku nak mksudkan sebenarnyer... hehe...
yg ni lupa dah nama dia...
from that batch i blaja, utk budak2 jenis mcm nih.. psikologi is the best way, if not kita yg psiko nnti... guna reverse psychology.. if u cannot handle them... u join them... don't turn urself into green monster yg bercekak pinggang jerit2 kat depa.. for all we know.. later on we'll become the laughing stock of the whole class... (behind our back la depa gelakkan kita balik)
utk budak2 nakal mcm ni never ever let them mess with ur head.. don't let them make u loose ur temper..sbb budak2 mcm nih dia suka je kalu kita marah dia.. so.. bila kita dah marah dia rasa dia menang lah.. abis la entah kemana P&P kitanyer.. pastu ngadu tak paham blaja apa... haha..
ehhh.. waitt.. actually aku nak citer.. budak2 nakal n selenga mcm nih la yg esok2 nyer (well...mostly la) akan jadi org yg berjaya.. ntah2 lebih berjaya dari kita pun.. so.. I always tell myself don't loose faith in them... sebab if I complaint too much pasal budak2 nih.. ntah2 aku yg sebenarnyer tak pandai nak handle budak2 nih.. where there's a will there's a way...
the same goes for my frens masa skolah dulu..yg nakal2 tu... after 15 years... tengok2 bila jumpe balik.. yg perangai pening2 dulu la yg jd somebody skarang... ada sorang kawan aku nih, masa darjah 6, dok kelas agak ujung la.. pastu memang tak perform la.. now.. dah jadi lecturer kat IPT, ajar design n dia even penah menang award peringkat kebangsaan lagi..
so.. pesanan buat diri sendiri... sayangi students.. jgn under estimate depa.. kalau dia nakal takpe.. jgn sampai buat jenayah dah la.. hehe
keep ur good students close.. keep ur not-so good students closer... :)
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